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» Marriage Equality New York

Start calling, writing, or e-mailing your representatives now: the State Senate goes into special session next Tuesday, and marriage equality is one of the possible issues at stake. All the info you need is at that link.

The text of the e-mail I just sent to Majority Leader Sampson, and Senator Onorato, follows.

Honorable Senators —

As a young gay man and a proud citizen of Astoria, Queens, I urge you to please do the right thing and schedule a vote on marriage equality for gay & lesbian men & women during the upcoming special session.

Senator Onorato, I know your position on the issue, but on behalf of your thousands of gay & lesbian constituents, their families, and the children growing up in your district who will one day be your constituents, I strongly encourage you to reconsider your stance. I hope to someday raise a family in this beautiful district, but I cannot do so in good conscience if my children will grow up in a place where their family’s right to exist on equal terms is publicly denigrated by our own representative. I honestly beg you: when this issue comes up for a vote, please do not stand in the way of my chance to be treated as an equal citizen in the eyes of the law.

Across the country, with every hateful, discriminatory ballot measure that strips away the rights that the Constitution should assure, millions of young gay men and women — myself included — are giving up hope that America will ever respect them as human beings, and are becoming sadly accustomed to a life of grinding bigotry. Please, do not let a chance go by to give us a fresh shot of hope.

Thank you for your time, and have a wonderful weekend!

-Chris Conroy
Astoria, Queens

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11/04/2009

On "Homophobia"

tylercoates:

A Facebook friend made a good point: “homophobia” does not mean what it says. On the one hand, it’s a nicer way to say someone is a bigot, because somehow that would be offensive? But at the same time, the idea that it describes someone as having a FEAR OF GAY PEOPLE is linguistically inaccurate.

The word originates from the Greek words homós (meaning “one and the same”) and phóbos (meaning “fear”). So really, “homophobia” means that you’re afraid of what you are - a fear of the same.

There’s some irony there, but I’m too annoyed to deal with it right now.

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For what it’s worth, I stopped using “homophobia” a long time ago. I just use “bigot.” I’m through using nice words.

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10/20/2009

adeandabet:

bostongrits:

dailycuteboy:

queer-as-ty / (via propertyofguy)

God grant me the            serenity  to see the things I cannot touch;  courage to touch the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.

Ha! Well put.

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I really need to go back to the gym.

adeandabet:

bostongrits:

dailycuteboy:

queer-as-ty / (via propertyofguy)

God grant me the serenity
to see the things I cannot touch;
courage to touch the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Ha! Well put.

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I really need to go back to the gym.

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10/11/2009

omg Kylie COME ON ALREADY AAIIIEEEEE

omg Kylie COME ON ALREADY AAIIIEEEEE

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10/11/2009

“ Obama’s major achievement - the one thing he has actually done - is invite gay families to the Easter egg-roll. „

Live-Blogging The HRC Dinner (via homosuperior)

Sullivan’s got a pretty biting, but very well supported, analysis of the President’s HRC Speech tonight.

If I may:

“He says he wants to end discrimination in employment even as he is firing more gay people solely for being gay than any other employer in the country - as commander-in-chief. And if an employer is firing gay people all the time, is it tolerable to accept as a response that he will stop doing it one day - but gives no time-line at all to hold him to?

Look: I didn’t expect these issues to be front and center given his appalling inheritance; I know he has many other things on his plate; I didn’t expect the moon; I didn’t believe he would do any of this immediately; I understand that the real job is for us to do, not him, and that most of the action is in the states. And I remain a strong supporter of him in foreign policy and in the way he is clearly trying to move this country past the ideological divides of the recent past.

But the sad truth is: he is refusing to take any responsibility for his clear refusal to fulfill clear campaign pledges on the core matter of civil rights and has given no substantive, verifiable pledges or deadlines by which he can be held accountable. What that means, I’m afraid, is that this speech was highfalutin bullshit. There were no meaningful commitments within a time certain, not even a commitment to fulfilling them in his first term; just meaningless, feel-good commitments that we have no way of holding him to. Once the dust settles, ask yourself. What did he promise to achieve in the next year? Or two years? Or four years? The answer is: nothing.

HRC, of course, is putting no pressure on him; Joe Solmonese’s disgraceful email actually took all pressure off him by saying he’d be happy to wait till 2017 for HRC to hold Obama accountable. HRC are putting pressure, as they always have, on gay people to go to the back of the line and be grateful a president attends their fundraising event. The only word for this is a racket. And if gay people do not rise up and demand change from this organization and stop funding a group whose goal has always been to sell the Democrats to gay people rather than secure civil rights, then they will continue to suffer the discrimination they live under day after day.”

(via adeandabet)

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Co-signed. I mean let’s be honest, here: is there a single constituency in this country that is violently opposed to repealing Don’t Ask Don’t Tell at this point? Is anybody really going to fight on this? Repealing DOMA, that’s a big one, I don’t expect that to happen without a lot of burnt political capital and some serious demagoguery. But Don’t Ask Don’t Tell seems like it is frankly a gimme. Perhaps I misread the situation.

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09/22/2009

He Wolf

This kid rules.

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Pet Shop Boys - “The Way It Used To Be” - Yes

If you follow my Twitter page, then you know I went to the Pet Shop Boys concert last night, alone, and that being alone in a crowd of affluent, coupled gay men was pretty depressing for me (I’d just had to flog my second ticket to the show for $50 on Craigslist; it was bought back in those heady days when I had a boyfriend). But then the show started, and it was totally worth all the pre-show grief. I don’t have the brainpower for a full-on writeup, but I would refer you to this Brooklyn Vegan post for the setlist and some excellent photographs, and to YouTube for video of my favorite performance of the night, “Two Divided By Zero” (unfortunately this high-quality video was recorded at a festival performance, so the full stage set isn’t in evidence; refer to the photo post for that). The PSB always have amazing and ingenious stage shows (can’t wait for the inevitable DVD), and I got to hear two of my absolute all-time favorite deep cuts, “Two Divided By Zero” and “King’s Cross,” so I’m a happy camper.

The above MP3 is my favorite song from the current PSB album; it absolutely nails that uniquely gay melancholy that I come to the Pet Shop Boys for, and as a bonus, it’s a very New York-specific kind of song. Plus, it’s just full of awesome hooks. It kills me when Tennant quasi-raps, it really does.

(Plays: 22)

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08/11/2009

I Wanna

me:  MATTHEW
In reviewing your liked posts
Matthew:  yes
me:  I discovered the photo of Trent Reznor on THE PRICE IS RIGHT
Matthew:  yes
me:  LITERALLY AMAZING
Matthew:  yes.
me:  I seriously want to marry that guy
I’m, like, 80% sure I could put up with his shit
Matthew:  could you put up with heterosexuality
me:  Well, no, probably not
I mean, he can fuck chicks on the side, i don’t care
As long as he’s still into it with me

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08/10/2009

According to IMDB, if you like Dawson’s Creek, you will enjoy other REALLY, REALLY GAY SHIT.

According to IMDB, if you like Dawson’s Creek, you will enjoy other REALLY, REALLY GAY SHIT.

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07/22/2009

Ciara (w/ Missy Elliott) - “Work”

This is the most hardcore lesbian pornography I’ve ever seen.

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07/12/2009

Qualities I hope my next boyfriend will have:

tylercoates:

1. Cable.

2. Air-conditioning.

3. A boat.

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I can generally settle for two out of three, as long as one of them is air conditioning.

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07/06/2009

takethecityandrun:

ericmortensen:

asprettyasasong:

dylicious: mykicks:

The flag of equal marriage
This is an evolving protest flag for equal marriage rights in the United States.The stars on the Jan 1, 2010 flag represent the states that actively perform same-sex marriages. Stars are arranged on the blue field in order of each state’s admission into the union.




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Wow, that’s pretty clever.

takethecityandrun:

ericmortensen:

asprettyasasong:

dylicious: mykicks:

The flag of equal marriage

This is an evolving protest flag for equal marriage rights in the United States.
The stars on the Jan 1, 2010 flag represent the states that actively perform same-sex marriages. Stars are arranged on the blue field in order of each state’s admission into the union.

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Wow, that’s pretty clever.

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05/06/2009

» Kylie Minogue Is Finally Coming To North America « Idolator: Music News, Reviews, And Gossip

AAAAAAAAHHH AAAAAAAAAAAHHH AAAAAAAAAAAHHH AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHH

If any of y’all bitches get tickets and I don’t then there is about to be a (what) A GIRLFIGHT.

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I consumed two notable instances of pop-culture this weekend: the Wolverine movie, and (sort of by accident) Lady Gaga in concert at Terminal 5. Of the former, the less said the better, as it was quite frankly terrible. But so it goes.
But of the latter… hahahahaha. I have to say, I’ve always had a bit of a sneaking fondness for Lady Gaga, possibly out of some kind of homosexual community pride. But in the last few months, as she’s become an actual honest-to-God big deal popstar, I’ve grown to appreciate her more and more. Part of it is just because she’s so completely ridiculous, and I would rather have ridiculous popstars than boring ones, or slutty-by-numbers ones. But a lot of it is also a reaction against many of the people who just seem SO GODDAMN ANGRY that this woman could possibly exist. I feel like most of the critics of Gaga don’t understand that laughter is a perfectly acceptable response to her schtick. Yes, obviously she’s transparently fake, and pretentious in a way you don’t normally see after the tenth grade: but that’s funny, and she knows it. She’s just as happy if you laugh as she is if you take it seriously. She’s here to entertain.
And I have to say, she definitely entertained on Saturday night. She danced her face off, she wore hilarious clothes (as above), her live vocals were surprisingly strong, she chatted to the audience a lot, she played “Poker Face” twice in two different arrangements — basically, she made sure we got our money’s worth and more (and considering the fact that the tickets were only $20, it was one of the better pop bargains I’ve gotten in a while). I’m really deeply curious to see if she manages to stick around for more than one album — I’d rank her chances at somewhere around 20%, frankly, but if she actually brings it on her next record maybe all this “new Madonna” talk is justified. Remember: In all the ways people complain that Gaga is tasteless and pretentious and superficial now, the same kinds of people were saying the same kinds of things about Madonna twenty-five years ago.
I do have to offer a note on the audience of the show I attended — Gaga was playing twice in one night, and I went to the earlier show, which must have been the reason for the crowd makeup. You might’ve expected the Gaga crowd to be, well, pretty gay, but in point of fact it was maybe 30% gay guys, with the rest of the audience made up of thirteen- to fifteen-year-old New Jersey girls in slutty dresses and five-inch heels, the majority of whom were DRUNK OFF THEIR ASSES. It was hilarious. My date and I were toppled onto no less than three times before the first opening act even started. Youth of America, between those shameless displays and your misplaced fervor for the distinctly unoriginal stylings of Chester French and the White Tie Affair (the latter of whom was a bizarre mashup of the Jonas Brothers and the Killers, like what Disney Radio would sound like if its acts were allowed to talk about sex and do rocked-up covers of “Got Money”), you are really setting quite an example.

I consumed two notable instances of pop-culture this weekend: the Wolverine movie, and (sort of by accident) Lady Gaga in concert at Terminal 5. Of the former, the less said the better, as it was quite frankly terrible. But so it goes.

But of the latter… hahahahaha. I have to say, I’ve always had a bit of a sneaking fondness for Lady Gaga, possibly out of some kind of homosexual community pride. But in the last few months, as she’s become an actual honest-to-God big deal popstar, I’ve grown to appreciate her more and more. Part of it is just because she’s so completely ridiculous, and I would rather have ridiculous popstars than boring ones, or slutty-by-numbers ones. But a lot of it is also a reaction against many of the people who just seem SO GODDAMN ANGRY that this woman could possibly exist. I feel like most of the critics of Gaga don’t understand that laughter is a perfectly acceptable response to her schtick. Yes, obviously she’s transparently fake, and pretentious in a way you don’t normally see after the tenth grade: but that’s funny, and she knows it. She’s just as happy if you laugh as she is if you take it seriously. She’s here to entertain.

And I have to say, she definitely entertained on Saturday night. She danced her face off, she wore hilarious clothes (as above), her live vocals were surprisingly strong, she chatted to the audience a lot, she played “Poker Face” twice in two different arrangements — basically, she made sure we got our money’s worth and more (and considering the fact that the tickets were only $20, it was one of the better pop bargains I’ve gotten in a while). I’m really deeply curious to see if she manages to stick around for more than one album — I’d rank her chances at somewhere around 20%, frankly, but if she actually brings it on her next record maybe all this “new Madonna” talk is justified. Remember: In all the ways people complain that Gaga is tasteless and pretentious and superficial now, the same kinds of people were saying the same kinds of things about Madonna twenty-five years ago.

I do have to offer a note on the audience of the show I attended — Gaga was playing twice in one night, and I went to the earlier show, which must have been the reason for the crowd makeup. You might’ve expected the Gaga crowd to be, well, pretty gay, but in point of fact it was maybe 30% gay guys, with the rest of the audience made up of thirteen- to fifteen-year-old New Jersey girls in slutty dresses and five-inch heels, the majority of whom were DRUNK OFF THEIR ASSES. It was hilarious. My date and I were toppled onto no less than three times before the first opening act even started. Youth of America, between those shameless displays and your misplaced fervor for the distinctly unoriginal stylings of Chester French and the White Tie Affair (the latter of whom was a bizarre mashup of the Jonas Brothers and the Killers, like what Disney Radio would sound like if its acts were allowed to talk about sex and do rocked-up covers of “Got Money”), you are really setting quite an example.

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